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Wellness and Self Love

You might wonder what wellness and self-love have in common?

Right from the time of our ancestors we’ve been told that while healthy food and exercise are essential to good health they’re not enough on their own. If we’re to achieve wholeself wellness we must also cultivate a good mindset, some form of spiritual (not necessarily religious) practice and balanced emotions.

There is no greater tool for transformation than deciding it’s time to start loving yourself.

Hating on yourself sabotages wellness and is a direct fast-route to creating imbalance. However, self-love and self-care gently support your emotional health, makings them an essential part of your holistic wellness practice.

Amidst the hustle and bustle of life it can be so easy to let self-care take a back seat as you rush about trying to get everything done.

To create a life you don’t feel desperate to escape, it’s vital you pay enough attention to your needs, your true needs. These are the choices you make that relax your body, calm your mind and make your soul feel wealthy. They’re little things in your daily life that rejuvenate and uplift you, like putting your phone aside to read a book. Or perhaps, a peaceful walk in nature, even the local park. Maybe it means an early night, or a calming bath before bed. Or even just ten uninterrupted minutes of quiet.

Your true needs are your own, they’re individual and different for everyone. Identify what creates that feeling of soul-wealth for YOU. And then commit to making them habits in your daily life.

5 Keys to Wellness

Of course there are many ways to create and maintain wellness, but these will get you started.

1. Make time every day to quiet your mind. Spending time in awareness in a place of stillness is one of the most powerful tools to restore balance. Daily meditation in all its forms from mindfulness to walking or dance meditation, helps this become a habit. Even five minutes is enough if it’s regular.

2. Support yourself to wellness by eating a healthy diet, loaded with antioxidant rich foods and superfoods. Try including the six flavours of salty, sweet, bitter, sour, pungent and astringent. Select and prepare your food with care and eat it with awareness.

3. Move!  Daily exercise is a must to keep your body flexible, mobile and young. It also keeps your mind sharp and improves your emotional wellbeing. Exercise takes many forms, find the one that’s right for both your preference and your age.

4. Create time for enough restful sleep. One of the most important factors for creating balance, and one that’s frequently overlooked, is good sleep. Sometimes being able to manage on little sleep is even viewed as a strength. But know this is not true! Adults need between seven and eight hours restful sleep every night to keep the immune system strong, the mind clear and the body in balance.

5. Release negative emotions like anger, shame, guilt or hurt. Hanging on to this residue from the past creates a toxic internal environment. Replace these with appreciation and love for all of yourself, your strengths and your challenges.

    Holistic wellness is about harmonising and balancing on all levels, mind, body, emotions and spirit and we only achieve this balance when we address all these aspects of ourselves.

    It’s crucial to your mental, emotional, spiritual and physical health to make time in your hectic schedule to look after and appreciate yourself.

    The important message is, it’s never too late to improve your health.

    Decide how you can best show yourself some love today. Start small and simple and watch your wellness bloom.